Elopements are all about intimate, stress-free celebrations of love. With fewer guests and a more relaxed atmosphere, your styling can reflect your unique personality without the pressure of traditional wedding norms. Whether you're exchanging vows in a scenic outdoor location or a cozy hotel, here’s a practical guide to help you style your elopement beautifully.

Consider Fun Elopement Locations

The location sets the tone for your styling choices, so take into account the surroundings and weather.

Beach or Mountain Elopements

Opt for lightweight, flowy fabrics like chiffon or silk to stay comfortable. Soft pastels and neutral tones blend beautifully with nature.

Urban City Elopements

A chic, modern look works well here—think sleek silhouettes and bold accessories. Perhaps in front of a modern bridge or a city landmark.

Forest or Desert Elopements

Earthy tones like greens, browns, and deep reds, combined with natural materials, complement rustic, outdoor settings.

Pro tip: Pack an extra layer, like a shawl or jacket, if the weather might be unpredictable! The bridal scarf is a current favorite.

Practical (but Cute) Wedding Dress + Shoes

Since many elopement locations involve walking on grass, sand, or uneven terrain, your footwear should be comfortable yet stylish.

Flats or Low Heels

Comfortable sandals or low heels work great for beach or garden ceremonies.

Boots or Sneakers

For mountain or farm elopements, consider cute ankle boots. They add flair without the pain of traditional heels.

Short Dresses for ease of movement and simple packing!

Pro tip: Always break in your shoes beforehand to avoid blisters on your big day!

Keep Bridal Accessories Simple but Meaningful

With a smaller-scale elopement, there’s no need to go overboard on accessories. Instead, focus on personal, meaningful pieces. And make sure to choose options that pack well.

Pro Tip: Many brides prefer veils made from lace to avoid the traditional wrinkling of tulle that is used in other veils. If you’re having a destination elopement, choose lightweight accessories that travel well and do not wrinkle easily.

Statement Bridal Pieces

Choose 1 or 2 bold accessories that make you feel like... well, a bride! A vintage hairpin, your grandmother’s locket, or a custom hair bow can elevate your look without feeling fussy.

Wedding Hair and Makeup: Natural and Long-Lasting

Since elopements tend to be more relaxed, your hair and makeup should reflect that vibe while still looking polished. Many of my brides choose to do their own hair or makeup if they are eloping.

Hair: If you’re eloping somewhere windy, consider styles that won’t need constant touch-ups. Consider that there may be more or less humidity in your chosen destination, which may change how your hair "behaves".

Makeup: Opt for a fresh, glowing look. Focus on long-wear products, especially for foundation and lipstick, to keep you looking photo-ready throughout the day.

Pro Tip: If you’re going DIY for hair and makeup, practice ahead of time. Bring a mini emergency kit with touch-up makeup, safety pins, and hairspray.

Add Personal Touches to your Wedding Wardrobe

Since elopements are all about you and your partner, add personalized touches to your look.

Embroidered jackets, personalized shoes, or a unique bouquet can make your look extra special.

Tip: Since you are saving on wedding costs, don’t hesitate to go all out with a few special details that showcase your love story.


Happy eloping! 🌿